Planning to retire
Planning to retire
Yes I have got the bug as well but have visited Udon 3 times and because I hate my job, the weather, my two ex wives in the UK, and need to live in a place more pleasurable.
My plan is NOT to get a retirement visa but come every 3 months and rent.
I met 3 girls in Udon who within 2 months of emailing from the UK asked for money as they have sad life and in the same sentence, included sort code and bank account.
I just want to play games now like all Thai women do. If you can't beat them join them.
Sounds awful just read the threads here!!
Any comments
My plan is NOT to get a retirement visa but come every 3 months and rent.
I met 3 girls in Udon who within 2 months of emailing from the UK asked for money as they have sad life and in the same sentence, included sort code and bank account.
I just want to play games now like all Thai women do. If you can't beat them join them.
Sounds awful just read the threads here!!
Any comments
What I am trying to say is I just do not think ANY Thai lady is worth the inevitable heartache and issues, plus being a made to look a fool.
All Farang who say " my wife " is different, is in the category of later rather than sooner in the world of deceit.
Women / wives / gf will wait way down the line before pulling the plug. Buyer BEWARE!!
All Farang who say " my wife " is different, is in the category of later rather than sooner in the world of deceit.
Women / wives / gf will wait way down the line before pulling the plug. Buyer BEWARE!!
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Ok ... thanks John5001, have fun every 3 months.john5001 wrote:What I am trying to say is I just do not think ANY Thai lady is worth the inevitable heartache and issues, plus being a made to look a fool.
All Farang who say " my wife " is different, is in the category of later rather than sooner in the world of deceit.
Women / wives / gf will wait way down the line before pulling the plug. Buyer BEWARE!!
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Re: Planning to retire
Did you actually meet the girls or only on line? You have to understand that there are an awful lot of F*****g falangs who DO ACTUALLY SEND money to people they have never met. It's a good business. I know a Thai MAN who pretends to be four different girls on line.john5001 wrote: I met 3 girls in Udon who within 2 months of emailing from the UK asked for money here!!
It takes all sorts. If you get rid of your preconceived ideas you might enjoy it here.
Good luck
Re: Planning to retire
You said it better than I did, treehugger.treehugger wrote:If you get rid of your preconceived ideas you might enjoy it here.
Good luck
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Now now Saint, John's post wasn't offensive, a little misguided, but not offensive,
we all (hopefully) believe in free speech so in the interest of this let him have his say, I for one think that he is 75% right, I have had relationships with 4 Thai ladies, 3 of whom were on a money making mission, the 4th (current TGF) NEVER
askes me for anything, and is well on course to being promoted to my TW - well some would think that should be demoted ! Let him retire to UT, and hopefully he will discover that there is life beyond money mad bar girls, during his 'education' he might turn the tables on a few bar girls, treating them with the same indifference that they treat any raw falang, - as you sow so shall yea reap - but he'd better be careful he doesn't enroll on a WBU course during his mission !
we all (hopefully) believe in free speech so in the interest of this let him have his say, I for one think that he is 75% right, I have had relationships with 4 Thai ladies, 3 of whom were on a money making mission, the 4th (current TGF) NEVER
askes me for anything, and is well on course to being promoted to my TW - well some would think that should be demoted ! Let him retire to UT, and hopefully he will discover that there is life beyond money mad bar girls, during his 'education' he might turn the tables on a few bar girls, treating them with the same indifference that they treat any raw falang, - as you sow so shall yea reap - but he'd better be careful he doesn't enroll on a WBU course during his mission !
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Oh he will be in WBU big time, I just love when a farrang thinks he has it figured out and shows up. Like having the wolf watch the sheep. With that approach he won't get hooked up with the good people here. He won't even make a breakfast for them just a snack.
The type of people like he is talking about here really is a very small precentage of the people. But with that approach that is all he is going to find.
The type of people like he is talking about here really is a very small precentage of the people. But with that approach that is all he is going to find.
''Oh he will be in WBU big time, I just love when a farrang thinks he has it figured out and shows up. Like having the wolf watch the sheep. With that approach he won't get hooked up with the good people here. He won't even make a breakfast for them just a snack.Kudjap or Bust wrote:I think the guys an arse, his post is absolute bollox, he's the type of jerk this country or to be more specific UTH doesn't need.
John5001, stay away please
The type of people like he is talking about here really is a very small precentage of the people. But with that approach that is all he is going to find''
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Or could we change that to "any lady" is worth the inevitable heartache.Sounds like you have sabataged (sp) all chances of a wonderful relationship ,before it even starts."My two ex wives in the UK ". Sounds like a bit of a pattern john,of course it will never work for you with a nice thai gal,it did not work with 2 previous wives.Well after two broken marriages,John, I can understand how you feel all relationships are headed for the toilet.All Farang who say " my wife " is different, is in the category of later rather than sooner in the world of deceit.I just do not think ANY Thai lady is worth the inevitable heartache
But thanks for winding me up before 8a.m. dont need two cups of coffee now .
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Gosh your all very defensive
With the exception of Mally you all have missed the point. I have spent 8 weeks in Udon and find it amusing how most Thai females are after a better life for the family ( and why not ) the Farang is not important but what he can bring FINANCIALLY IS!!
Ignorance can be fatal...to your well being.
I am due to come out again and will meet some more but it all comes doen to the same thing; I need money and then the mails stop if none is sent.
I like it in Udon and will return but at least I am not in denial.
With the exception of Mally you all have missed the point. I have spent 8 weeks in Udon and find it amusing how most Thai females are after a better life for the family ( and why not ) the Farang is not important but what he can bring FINANCIALLY IS!!
Ignorance can be fatal...to your well being.
I am due to come out again and will meet some more but it all comes doen to the same thing; I need money and then the mails stop if none is sent.
I like it in Udon and will return but at least I am not in denial.
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well john i wish you well, especially now youve changed your attitude from your first post where you said all thai women and have now moderated to most thai women. and i didnt realise you was such a veteran here, with 8 weeks under your belt. i take you word for it about ignorance , your obviously an expert. maybe the thai women that you have met in the past are a little brighter than you give them credit for, maybe they realise that your a very shallow person so they try and get what they can whilst they can, as they see you dont have an ounce of sincerity in you, but hey what do i know im in denial.